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"ot-quality-time-5" ] }, { "id": "part-3-2", "title": "3.2 Quality Conversation & Communication Personalities", "order": 2, "blurb": "3.2 Quality Conversation & Communication Personalities", "studyGuideAnchor": "quality-conversation-communication-personalities", "itemIds": [ "item-ll-076", "item-ll-077", "item-ll-078", "item-ll-079", "item-ll-080", "item-ll-081", "item-ll-082", "item-ll-084", "item-ll-085", "item-ll-086", "item-ll-087", "item-ll-088", "item-ll-089", "item-ll-090", "ot-listening-dyads-1", "ot-listening-dyads-2", "ot-listening-dyads-4", "ot-listening-dyads-5" ] } ], "objectives": [ { "id": "obj-ll-05", "statement": "Cultivate Quality Time through focused undivided attention, eye contact, and shared memory-building activities.", "demonstrationIds": [ "d-ll-05-attention", "d-ll-05-activities" ] }, { "id": "obj-ll-06", "statement": "Navigate the Dead Sea and Babbling Brook communication dyad using active empathetic listening and the Minimum Daily Requirement.", 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"objectiveId": "obj-ll-06", "title": "Communication Dyads & Listening", "mcqIds": [ "ot-listening-dyads-1", "ot-listening-dyads-2", "item-ll-086", "ot-listening-dyads-4", "ot-listening-dyads-5" ] } ] }, { "id": "lesson-4", "title": "Lesson 4: Love Language #3 β€” Receiving Gifts", "order": 4, "studyGuidePath": "/packs/five-love-languages/guides/04-love-language-3-receiving-gifts.md", "sources": [ { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Dr. Gary Chapman" } ], "parts": [ { "id": "part-4-1", "title": "4.1 Visual Symbols of Love & Thoughtfulness", "order": 1, "blurb": "4.1 Visual Symbols of Love & Thoughtfulness", "studyGuideAnchor": "visual-symbols-of-love-thoughtfulness", "itemIds": [ "item-ll-091", "item-ll-092", "item-ll-093", "item-ll-094", "item-ll-095", "item-ll-096", "item-ll-097", "item-ll-098", "item-ll-099", "item-ll-100", "item-ll-101", "item-ll-102", "item-ll-103", "item-ll-104", "item-ll-105", "ot-gift-symbol-meaning", "ot-gift-not-found", 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"ot-gift-ring-anchor", "ot-gift-cost-irrelevant" ] }, { "id": "test-gift-of-self-investment", "objectiveId": "obj-ll-08", "title": "Gift of Self & Investment", "mcqIds": [ "ot-self-gift-term", "ot-self-gift-crisis-choice", "ot-self-gift-flexibility", "ot-self-gift-saver", "ot-self-gift-experiential" ] } ] }, { "id": "lesson-5", "title": "Lesson 5: Love Language #4 β€” Acts of Service", "order": 5, "studyGuidePath": "/packs/five-love-languages/guides/05-love-language-4-acts-of-service.md", "sources": [ { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Dr. Gary Chapman" } ], "parts": [ { "id": "part-5-1", "title": "5.1 Love in Action vs. Coerced Servitude", "order": 1, "blurb": "5.1 Love in Action vs. Coerced Servitude", "studyGuideAnchor": "love-in-action-vs-coerced-servitude", "itemIds": [ "item-ll-121", "item-ll-122", "item-ll-123", "item-ll-124", "item-ll-125", "item-ll-126", "item-ll-127", "item-ll-128", "item-ll-129", "item-ll-130", "item-ll-131", "item-ll-132", 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"title": "Love Language Discovery", "mcqIds": [ "ot-discovery-first-question", "ot-discovery-three-questions-not", "ot-discovery-bilingual", "ot-tankcheck-scale", "ot-tankcheck-followup" ] }, { "id": "test-unlovely-parenting", "objectiveId": "obj-ll-14", "title": "Loving the Unlovely & Parenting", "mcqIds": [ "ot-unlovely-protocol", "ot-unlovely-case-study", "ot-reciprocity-crumble", "ot-teen-rebellion-root", "ot-generational-heritage-term" ] } ] } ], "items": [ { "id": "item-ll-001", "shape": "mcqShort", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "According to Dr. Gary Chapman, what is the foundational emotional need at the heart of human existence?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "To attain public recognition and career advancement in competitive fields.", "short": "Professional achievement" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "To feel genuinely loved, valued, and cherished by significant others.", "short": "To feel loved and valued" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "To 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empty emotional love tank is comparable to driving a vehicle without ___, eventually causing catastrophic friction.", "uid": "geuvn41w64lno" }, { "id": "item-ll-005", "shape": "fact", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "How does Dr. Gary Chapman characterize the nature of the initial 'in-love' experience?" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 3", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "in-love-phase", "neurobiology", "infatuation" ], "title": "The In-Love Experience", "body": "An instinctual, involuntary emotional high that temporarily captivates human thoughts and creates effortless infatuation.", "illustration": { "kind": "photo", "imageSearchTerm": "young couple laughing together on a date at night in the city", "alt": "A young couple laughing together and leaning close on a city street at night", "imagePrompt": "Documentary-style photograph: A young couple laughing together and leaning close on a city street at night. 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Scott Peck define authentic love in his work 'The Road Less Traveled'?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "A genetically programmed drive aimed solely at reproductive survival of the species.", "short": "Biological survival instinct" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "The will to extend oneself for the purpose of nurturing spiritual growth in another.", "short": "Spiritual growth extension" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A formal arrangement designed to maintain community stability and economic wealth.", "short": "Social convention" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "An effortless collapse of personal ego boundaries during early physical attraction.", "short": "Emotional euphoria" } ], "correctIndex": 1, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 3", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "scott-peck", "ego-boundaries", "spiritual-growth" ], "uid": "1mgmeqj1mzc8s1" }, { "id": "item-ll-017", "shape": "pair", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Match the type of love to its volitional nature." }, "sideA": { "modality": "text", "value": "Mature Covenant Love" }, "sideB": { "modality": "text", "value": "A daily conscious act of will and disciplined choice" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 3", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "volition", "covenant", "commitment" ], "uid": "ij3r5lbiy0ov" }, { "id": "item-ll-018", "shape": "fact", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "How does a full emotional love tank impact an individual's personal growth and security?" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 2", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "emotional-security", "psychological-safety", "flourishing" ], "title": "Psychological Safety in Marriage", "body": "The profound climate of emotional security that emerges when a partner's love tank is consistently kept full.", "illustration": { "kind": "photo", "imageSearchTerm": "woman resting her head on a man's shoulder sitting on a porch", "alt": "A woman resting her head on a man's shoulder as they sit together outdoors", "imagePrompt": "Documentary-style photograph: A woman resting her head on a man's shoulder as they sit together outdoors. 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Chapter 4", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "empathy", "perspective-taking", "unselfish-support" ], "uid": "14slbv51tmdz77" }, { "id": "item-ll-038", "shape": "pair", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Match the communication behavior to its underlying psychological motivation." }, "sideA": { "modality": "text", "value": "Nagging and Pressure" }, "sideB": { "modality": "text", "value": "Self-interested attempts to force a spouse toward your own agenda" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 4", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "autonomy", "nagging-vs-encouragement", "respect" ], "uid": "yqim3r47dx2v" }, { "id": "item-ll-039", "shape": "cloze", "answer": "indirect", "distractors": [ "coercive", "contractual", "accidental" ], "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 4", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "indirect-affirmation", "public-praise", "reputation" ], "template": "Praising your spouse to third partiesβ€”such as their parents or mutual friendsβ€”is known as ___ affirmation and carries magnified emotional resonance.", "uid": "1h8o18p144q5h3" }, { "id": "item-ll-040", "shape": "fact", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Why do written words of affirmation possess a distinct emotional advantage over spoken remarks?" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 4", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "written-notes", "tangible-affirmation", "durable-memory" ], "title": "Written Affirmations", "body": "Durable physical records of praise and affectionβ€”such as handwritten cards or sticky notesβ€”that can be revisited repeatedly.", "illustration": { "imageSearchTerm": "handwritten note on a sticky note", "imagePrompt": "Written Affirmations: Durable physical records of praise and affectionβ€”such as handwritten cards or sticky notesβ€”that can be revisited repeatedly.", "alt": "Written Affirmations.", "credit": "Pexels Β· Close-up of a sticky note reminder for a business lunch at 12 o'clock on a computer monitor.", "creditUrl": "https://www.pexels.com/photo/a-reminder-written-on-a-sticky-note-8124379/", "url": "https://cdn.recurxive.com/packs/five-love-languages/images/item-ll-040.webp" }, "uid": "phkpi4c5tll0" }, { "id": "item-ll-041", "shape": "comparison", "prompt": "Contrast specific, targeted praise with vague generic platitudes.", "correct": { "caption": "Specific praise notices exact actions and communicates deep personal attentiveness." }, "incorrect": { "caption": "Vague platitudes feel formulaic and lack any real meaningful psychological impact." }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - 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Chapter 8", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "tangible-bridge", "enduring-fortress", "marital-mastery" ], "uid": "1bf5a2bzhjqp1" }, { "id": "item-ll-181", "shape": "definition", "term": { "modality": "text", "value": "Primary Love Language Discovery" }, "definition": { "modality": "text", "value": "The systematic identification of the specific emotional dialect that most powerfully fills an individual's love tank." }, "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Why is discovering your partner's primary love language essential for marital success?" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 9", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "discovery", "primary-language", "emotional-precision" ], "uid": "1yojyb013iefyo" }, { "id": "item-ll-182", "shape": "fact", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "How does the first diagnostic discovery question use emotional pain to identify a love language?" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 9", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "diagnostic-question-1", "negative-mirror", "emotional-pain" ], "title": "The Negative Mirror of Complaints", "body": "The principle that what your partner does or fails to do that hurts you most deeply is the photographic negative of your primary love language.", "illustration": { "imageSearchTerm": "photographic negative film strip", "imagePrompt": "The Negative Mirror of Complaints: The principle that what your partner does or fails to do that hurts you most deeply is the photographic negative of your primary love language.", "alt": "The Negative Mirror of Complaints.", "credit": "Pexels Β· Close-up of a classic photographic film strip with a vintage feel against a white background.", "creditUrl": "https://www.pexels.com/photo/black-film-strip-in-close-up-shot-11026543/", "url": "https://cdn.recurxive.com/packs/five-love-languages/images/item-ll-182.webp" }, "uid": "1i7zd8u1crmvve" }, { "id": "item-ll-183", "shape": "mcqShort", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What diagnostic clue is revealed by the second discovery question regarding what you have most frequently requested?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "It simply reflects random preferences that carry no deeper meaning.", "short": "Just random preferences" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "It reveals which household chores you personally dislike doing most.", "short": "Dislike of certain chores" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Your repeated requests directly reveal what would make you feel most loved.", "short": "Your foundational need" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "It indicates a selfish desire for excessive material possessions.", "short": "Financial greed" } ], "correctIndex": 2, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 9", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "diagnostic-question-2", "repeated-requests", "unmet-needs" ], "uid": "tuslsfcfi1p1" }, { "id": "item-ll-184", "shape": "pair", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Match the diagnostic discovery channel to its core investigative focus." }, "sideA": { "modality": "text", "value": "The third diagnostic question" }, "sideB": { "modality": "text", "value": "Analyzing how you naturally and regularly express love to your spouse" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 9", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "diagnostic-question-3", "broadcast-channel", "natural-expression" ], "uid": "rj882otpdm2c" }, { "id": "item-ll-185", "shape": "fact", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What does it mean for an individual to be 'bilingual' in their love languages?" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 9", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "bilingual-partners", "dual-languages", "emotional-balance" ], "title": "Bilingual Love Languages", "body": "Individuals who possess two primary love languages of nearly equal emotional weight, requiring both to feel fully nourished.", "uid": "r980ge1uvu5wy" }, { "id": "item-ll-186", "shape": "cloze", "answer": "10", "distractors": [ "5", "20", "100" ], "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 9", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "tank-check", "quantitative-scale", "feedback-routine" ], "template": "The 'Tank Check' routine involves asking your spouse: 'On a scale of 0 to ___, how full is your love tank tonight?'", "uid": "pbilm8n4lm26" }, { "id": "item-ll-187", "shape": "procedure", "goal": "How to conduct the daily 'Tank Check' feedback routine", "steps": [ "Ask your spouse: 'On a scale of 0 to 10, how full is your love tank tonight?'", "Listen attentively to their numeric rating without becoming defensive or arguing.", "Ask the crucial follow-up: 'What is one specific thing I could do tonight to help fill it?'", "Execute the requested loving action immediately with a willing, cheerful attitude." ], "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 9", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "actionable-follow-up", "filling-the-tank", "immediate-steps" ], "uid": "afowqxpuwstn" }, { "id": "item-ll-188", "shape": "fact", "fact": "A partner whose love tank has been empty for years may initially struggle to identify their primary language due to emotional numbness.", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Why might a spouse with a long-empty love tank struggle initially with self-diagnosis?" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - 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Profile Section", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "profile-quiz", "forced-choice", "diagnostic-hierarchy" ], "uid": "9lllev193eg0d" }, { "id": "item-ll-190", "shape": "comparison", "prompt": "Contrast the lifelong stability of primary love languages with shifting secondary dialect needs.", "correct": { "caption": "Primary languages remain anchored for life, while secondary dialects adapt across seasons." }, "incorrect": { "caption": "Primary languages change randomly every few weeks based on mood, weather, and diet." }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 9", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "stability", "lifelong-wiring", "secondary-shifts" ], "uid": "1qrpjs1qoaazt" }, { "id": "item-ll-191", "shape": "pair", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Match the response to a low Tank Check score with its relational consequence." }, "sideA": { "modality": "text", "value": "Humble Acceptance and Action" }, "sideB": { "modality": "text", "value": "Builds deep emotional safety and validates your partner's vulnerable reality" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - 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Chapter 9", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "tank-at-10", "marital-flourishing", "emotional-resilience" ], "body": "What marital state is reflected when both love tanks are consistently maintained at a 10?", "title": "What marital state is reflected when both love tanks are consistently maintained", "illustration": { "imageSearchTerm": "car fuel gauge needle pointing to full", "imagePrompt": "What marital state is reflected when both love tanks are consistently maintained: What marital state is reflected when both love tanks are consistently maintained at a 10?", "alt": "What marital state is reflected when both love tanks are consistently maintained.", "credit": "Pexels Β· Close-up image of a car fuel gauge with the needle pointing to empty.", "creditUrl": "https://www.pexels.com/photo/a-fuel-gauge-near-empty-line-12996956/", "url": "https://cdn.recurxive.com/packs/five-love-languages/images/item-ll-194.webp" }, "uid": "bkyj6q136817s" }, { "id": "item-ll-195", "shape": "procedure", "goal": "How to make the Tank Check a permanent habit in marriage", "steps": [ "Integrate the question into your evening dinner or bedtime conversation.", "Establish a shared ground rule that all numeric scores are received without anger.", "Take turns asking each other three times per week during initial practice.", "Celebrate tangible increases in mutual warmth as emotional tanks remain full." ], "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 9", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "proactive-maintenance", "lifelong-habits", "preventing-drift" ], "uid": "15lrmxj1rbki9t" }, { "id": "item-ll-196", "shape": "definition", "term": { "modality": "text", "value": "Loving the Unlovely" }, "definition": { "modality": "text", "value": "An intentional pastoral-counseling experiment for unilaterally choosing to speak a hostile partner's love language to try to revive a dying marriage." }, "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What is Dr. Chapman's 'Loving the Unlovely' counseling protocol?" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 12", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "loving-the-unlovely", "clinical-protocol", "restoring-dead-marriages" ], "uid": "1wt15jc1f17qj0" }, { "id": "item-ll-197", "shape": "fact", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What did the famous clinical case of Ann and Glenn prove about love as a choice?" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 12", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "ann-and-glenn", "case-study", "six-month-experiment" ], "title": "The Ann and Glenn Case Study", "body": "A clinical breakthrough where a wife's 6-month unilateral investment in her husband's love languages melted his hostility and restored their marriage.", "uid": "ukeh975jtmkl" }, { "id": "item-ll-198", "shape": "comparison", "prompt": "Contrast conditional transactional affection with unilateral volitional love.", "correct": { "caption": "Unilateral love chooses to bless and serve without demanding immediate return." }, "incorrect": { "caption": "Conditional affection offers warmth only when the partner has already performed." }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - 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Chapter 13", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "child-development", "holistic-parenting", "emerging-primary" ], "uid": "k2mg7p10ob3w5" }, { "id": "item-ll-202", "shape": "pair", "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Match the adolescent behavior to its root emotional cause." }, "sideA": { "modality": "text", "value": "Severe Teenage Rebellion and Hostility" }, "sideB": { "modality": "text", "value": "Almost always rooted in an empty emotional love tank craving validation" }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages (1995 edition) - Chapter 13", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "adolescent-rebellion", "empty-tank-symptoms", "parental-influence" ], "uid": "1f23ozv1i5k0p3" }, { "id": "item-ll-203", "shape": "comparison", "prompt": "Contrast parental discipline administered with an empty love tank versus a full love tank.", "correct": { "caption": "Discipline with a full tank is received as loving guidance and corrective care." }, "incorrect": { "caption": "Discipline with an empty tank is perceived by the child as hostile personal rejection." }, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages (1995 edition) - 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accounts and live independent social lives.", "short": "Maintain total independence" } ], "correctIndex": 2, "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages - Chapter 10", "author": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, "tags": [ "core-axiom", "the-secret-to-love-that-lasts", "lifelong-mastery" ], "uid": "1lfe15r4oc82f" }, { "id": "ot-love-tank-1", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "love-tank", "chapman" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Chapman borrowed the 'emotional love tank' metaphor from which child psychiatrist?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. Ross Campbell" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. Dorothy Tennov" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. John Gottman" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. Sue Johnson" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Chapman credits child psychiatrist Dr. Ross Campbell as the source of the love tank metaphor; the others are not named in the guide as its origin.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "n56rub1faeher" }, { "id": "ot-love-tank-2", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "love-tank", "definition" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What does the 'emotional love tank' represent?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "A reservoir of security and affection" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A checklist of household responsibilities" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A record of past relationship conflicts" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A schedule for planning date nights" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The love tank is defined as an internal reservoir of emotional security and affection that fuels healthy behavior, not a task list or log.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "14wijxg1xq0gqe" }, { "id": "ot-love-tank-3", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "limerence", "tennov" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which psychologist coined the term 'limerence' after studying the romantic in-love phase?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. Dorothy Tennov" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. Ross Campbell" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. Gary Chapman" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. John Gottman" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Dr. Dorothy Tennov coined 'limerence' and studied how long the in-love obsession lasts; Campbell is linked to the love tank, not limerence.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "5jq1svgqfnq3" }, { "id": "ot-love-tank-4", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "limerence", "duration" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Per Tennov's research, about how long does the romantic 'in-love' limerence phase typically last?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "2 years" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "6 months" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "5 years" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "10 years" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Tennov's research found the intense in-love euphoria naturally subsides within about 24 months, roughly 2 years.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "59u9m2qixpaa" }, { "id": "ot-love-tank-5", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "love-tank", "symptoms" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which of these is NOT described in the guide as a symptom of an empty emotional love tank?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Increased jealousy" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Harsh bickering" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Emotional withdrawal" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Resentment" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The guide names bickering, withdrawal, and resentment as direct symptoms of an empty tank; jealousy is never mentioned in that list.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "u6hokxczdlfr" }, { "id": "ot-covenant-1", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "covenant-love", "infatuation" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What defines mature covenant love, as opposed to instinctual infatuation?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "A daily conscious act of will" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "An involuntary emotional high" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A biochemical neurochemical rush" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "An effortless instinctual state" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The guide frames covenant love as a disciplined, conscious daily choice, unlike the involuntary, effortless neurochemical rush of infatuation.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "o20q2o50543y" }, { "id": "ot-covenant-3", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "covenant-love", "action" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "According to the guide, love is primarily which part of speech before it becomes a subjective feeling?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "An action verb" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A descriptive adjective" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "An abstract noun" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A qualifying adverb" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The guide states love is primarily an action verb before it becomes a subjective emotional feeling, emphasizing intentional behavior over emotion.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1haxctv1ombj3r" }, { "id": "ot-covenant-5", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "covenant-love", "infatuation" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which statement best distinguishes falling in love from maintaining mature love?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Mature love requires discipline and choice" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Falling in love requires discipline and choice" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Mature love happens involuntarily" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Falling in love demands active learning" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The guide contrasts effortless, involuntary falling in love with mature love, which demands discipline, choice, and active learning to sustain.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "dxbjyape2t9k" }, { "id": "ot-woa-1", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "words-of-affirmation", "mark-twain" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "How long did Mark Twain say he could live on one good compliment?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Two months" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "One week" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Six months" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "One year" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Chapman quotes a line attributed to Twain, that a single sincere compliment could sustain him for two months, illustrating praise's lasting emotional power.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "gb14m61pq6tgq" }, { "id": "ot-woa-2", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "encouragement", "words-of-affirmation" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What does the word 'encourage' literally mean, according to Chapman?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "To inspire courage" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "To offer correction" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "To demand improvement" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "To teach a new skill" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Chapman notes 'encourage' literally means to inspire courage, helping a partner overcome self-doubt and pursue their potential.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "4994s61lqcx5w" }, { "id": "ot-woa-3", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "indirect-affirmation" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Praising your spouse to their parents when your spouse isn't in the room is an example of which practice?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Indirect affirmation" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Written affirmation" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Public affirmation" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Specific affirmation" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Chapman calls praise relayed to friends or relatives indirect affirmation; it carries magnified emotional resonance for the spouse.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "brbeksg7xlhi" }, { "id": "ot-woa-4", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "encouragement", "boundaries" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Chapman says pressuring a spouse toward a goal they haven't expressed a desire for is actually a form of what?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Judgment and nagging" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Encouragement and support" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Constructive feedback" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Tough love" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "True encouragement supports the partner's own aspirations; pushing your own agenda instead is judgment and self-interested nagging.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "57xn751r5ag81" }, { "id": "ot-woa-5", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "words-of-affirmation", "sincerity" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What should be the true motive behind genuine verbal affirmation, per Chapman?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Sincere and altruistic appreciation" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Manipulation to gain personal advantage" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A conditional reward for compliance" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A tactic to avoid conflict" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Chapman insists affirmation must be sincere and altruistic; using it as flattery or leverage undermines its integrity.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "d3pgem1dqcvda" }, { "id": "ot-req-1", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "gentle-voice", "conflict" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What effect does responding with a gentle voice have during a conflict, per Chapman?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "De-escalates hostility and opens dialogue" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Escalates hostility and ends discussion" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Signals weakness and invites more conflict" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Calms the moment but breeds resentment" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "A gentle voice de-escalates hostility and opens the door for constructive dialogue, unlike a harsh tone that inflames conflict.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1vn1qz235ll3o" }, { "id": "ot-req-2", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "coercion", "demands" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "According to Chapman, compliance won through nagging or emotional coercion is really an act of what, not love?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Fear or guilt" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Mutual respect" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Genuine devotion" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Shared commitment" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Chapman explains that compliance forced through nagging or coercion reflects fear or guilt in the spouse, not authentic loving cooperation.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1qdx7sf1rkzd1z" }, { "id": "ot-req-3", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "i-statements", "conflict" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Saying 'I felt hurt' instead of 'You are selfish' is an example of which communication technique?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "I-statements" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Invitational phrasing" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Score-keeping" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Nagging" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "I-statements express personal vulnerability instead of attacking the partner's character, defusing conflict rather than escalating it.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "11givhzp7q223" }, { "id": "ot-req-4", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "invitational-phrasing", "requests" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What does Chapman call framing a desire as 'Would it be possible...?' instead of a command?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Invitational phrasing" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Ongoing score-keeping tally" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "I-statements" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Nagging" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Invitational phrasing frames desires as collaborative requests rather than authoritarian demands, inviting cooperation instead of resistance.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1onwj657k4nxt" }, { "id": "ot-req-5", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "nagging", "conflict" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which of these is NOT a constructive communication habit described in the lesson?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Constant nagging and criticism" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Invitational phrasing" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "I-statements" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Responding with a gentle voice" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Constant nagging and criticism conditions a spouse to withdraw; it is the destructive habit the lesson contrasts with constructive ones.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1coibxi1g6s4xw" }, { "id": "ot-quality-time-1", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "quality-time", "love-languages" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What is the core requirement of Quality Time as a love language?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Acts of service for your partner" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Frequent verbal affirmations" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Undivided and full emotional attention" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Thoughtful gifts regularly" } ], "correctIndex": 2, "explanation": "Quality Time means giving your partner full, undivided emotional attentionβ€”the other options describe different love languages, not Quality Time.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "kchv4y15lsqko" }, { "id": "ot-quality-time-2", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "quality-time", "attention", "phubbing" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which of these does NOT count as genuine Quality Time?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Taking a distraction-free walk together" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Scrolling phones while sitting together" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Sharing a meal with devices put away" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Having an uninterrupted conversation" } ], "correctIndex": 1, "explanation": "Physical proximity isn't Quality Time; phubbing side-by-side gives zero emotional nourishment, unlike the other distraction-free activities.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1etjp6h1p6l349" }, { "id": "ot-quality-time-3", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "quality-time", "attention" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What does multitasking (like checking email) while your spouse talks communicate?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "The partner talks too much" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "The partner should reschedule" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Multitasking improves listening" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "The task outweighs the partner" } ], "correctIndex": 3, "explanation": "Splitting attention signals the task is more important than the person, making the speaker feel like an interruption.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "7khlv3b0tat5" }, { "id": "ot-quality-time-4", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "quality-time", "shared-activities" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What durable outcome does the lesson say quality activities build?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "An emotional bank of shared memories" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A shared financial investment portfolio" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A joint social media presence" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A shared list of household chores" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Quality activities create a reservoir of shared memories that anchors the marriage through hard times.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1lbv46ct5azy4" }, { "id": "ot-quality-time-5", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "quality-time", "shared-activities" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which simple, phone-free ritual does the lesson recommend for daily Quality Time?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "A weekly restaurant date night" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A televised sports broadcast" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A short neighborhood walk" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A grocery shopping errand" } ], "correctIndex": 2, "explanation": "The lesson calls out a short, phone-free neighborhood walk as the most effective daily ritualβ€”a weekly date night is valuable too, but isn't the daily practice described.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1sfvh5j1ncced5" }, { "id": "ot-listening-dyads-1", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "communication-dyads", "dead-sea" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What defines the 'Dead Sea' communication personality?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Immediately verbalizes everything perceived" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Absorbs experiences without verbalizing them" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Interrupts constantly during conversation" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Avoids eye contact entirely" } ], "correctIndex": 1, "explanation": "The Dead Sea personality absorbs daily experiences internally without an urge to verbalize them, unlike the externally-processing Babbling Brook.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1m5idob6bryah" }, { "id": "ot-listening-dyads-2", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "communication-dyads", "babbling-brook" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which trait describes the 'Babbling Brook' personality rather than the 'Dead Sea'?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Holds experiences internally" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Rarely speaks about daily events" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Needs prompting to share feelings" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Verbalizes everything immediately" } ], "correctIndex": 3, "explanation": "Babbling Brooks verbalize everything as it happensβ€”the opposite of the internally-processing Dead Sea style in the other options.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "4wktxpri1dzx" }, { "id": "ot-listening-dyads-4", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "active-listening", "empathy" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What technique helps a listener avoid false assumptions about a partner's feelings?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Offering unsolicited advice" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Asking clarifying questions" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Changing the subject" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Multitasking while listening" } ], "correctIndex": 1, "explanation": "Clarifying questions ensure accurate emotional comprehension, whereas the other responses derail empathetic listening.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1164rt91mp4wsb" }, { "id": "ot-listening-dyads-5", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "communication-dyads", "dead-sea", "adaptation" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What adaptation must a 'Dead Sea' partner make to bridge the communication gap?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Ask the spouse to talk less" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Write feelings in a journal instead of speaking" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Wait silently until directly asked a question" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Consciously verbalize inner thoughts and feelings" } ], "correctIndex": 3, "explanation": "The Dead Sea Adaptation means consciously choosing to open up and verbalize internal thoughts and feelings aloud, rather than staying silent or redirecting the effort elsewhere.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "xgl11fbuwzp5" }, { "id": "ot-gift-symbol-meaning", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "receiving-gifts", "visual-symbols" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What does a gift represent for someone whose love language is Receiving Gifts?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "A tangible symbol of being thought of" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A financial safety net for the future" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A public display of social status" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A record of favors owed" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson frames gifts as visual symbols of love and being held in a partner's thoughts, not as financial or status markers.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1qnhcpb1th1wxv" }, { "id": "ot-gift-not-found", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "found-gifts", "thoughtfulness" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which is NOT one of the lesson's examples of a zero-cost 'found' gift?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "A wild flower" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "An autumn leaf" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A smooth stone" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A gift card" } ], "correctIndex": 3, "explanation": "The lesson lists wild flowers, stones, and leaves as free found gifts; a store gift card is purchased, not found.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1i3p4dp19h3zuh" }, { "id": "ot-gift-value-compare", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "thoughtfulness", "gift-value" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Compared to a costly luxury item, what does the lesson say about a wildflower picked on a walk?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "It can carry equal or greater emotional value" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "It carries measurably less emotional value" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "It only counts as a gift from children" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "It cannot be considered a real gift" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson states a wild flower or handmade card can carry equal or greater emotional value than a costly item.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1lbvuc1r7hdhz" }, { "id": "ot-gift-ring-anchor", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "visual-symbols", "commitment" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "A partner wears their wedding ring every day. What function does the lesson say this serves?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "A visual anchor for commitment" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A display of financial status" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A superstition against bad luck" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A workplace dress requirement" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson describes worn items like wedding rings as visual anchors providing daily reminders of relational commitment.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1iypsan1j3vt91" }, { "id": "ot-gift-cost-irrelevant", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "thoughtfulness", "gift-cost" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "According to the lesson, what matters more than a gift's monetary cost?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "The thought and effort behind it" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "The brand reputation of the item" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "The physical size of the item" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "How recently it was purchased" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson states the monetary cost of a gift is irrelevant compared to the thought and effort it represents.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1lvaatx1mp9lzz" }, { "id": "ot-self-gift-term", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "gift-of-self", "presence" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What does the lesson call being physically present with your spouse during a crisis or milestone?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "The Gift of Self" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "The Saver Financial Personality" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Experiential Gifting" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A Visual Symbol of Love" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson names physical presence during crisis or milestones as 'The Gift of Self.'", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "5b0th49vouhk" }, { "id": "ot-self-gift-crisis-choice", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "gift-of-self", "priorities" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Per the lesson, which choice sends the message that career matters more than your partner?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "A meeting over a spouse's crisis" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Working late during a normal week" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Taking a scheduled business trip" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Answering a work email on vacation" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson specifically states choosing a business meeting over a spouse's crisis communicates career is valued more than the partner.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "ormocy18t8abm" }, { "id": "ot-self-gift-flexibility", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "gift-of-self", "flexibility" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What does giving the Gift of Self require you to be willing to do, per the lesson?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Drop non-essential routines during an emergency" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Keep your schedule fixed no matter what" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Delegate emotional support to someone else" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Wait for a more convenient time to respond" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson says the Gift of Self requires schedule flexibility to drop non-essential routines when an emotional emergency strikes.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "ctkkl42p4nca" }, { "id": "ot-self-gift-saver", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "investment-mindset", "saver-personality" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "How does the lesson describe someone with a 'Saver' financial personality?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Anxious about spending on discretionary gifts" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Anxious about having too much in savings" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Prone to impulsive luxury purchases" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Uninterested in receiving any gifts" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson describes Savers as deriving security from accumulated savings and feeling anxiety when spending on discretionary gifts.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "ffufb31f7mi15" }, { "id": "ot-self-gift-experiential", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "experiential-gifts", "investment-mindset" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What kind of gift does the lesson say bridges Receiving Gifts with Quality Time?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Experiential gifts like trips" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A handwritten card with a gift" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A found object like a smooth stone" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A midday coffee delivered to work" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson describes experiential gifts, such as concert tickets or weekend trips, as bridging Receiving Gifts with Quality Time.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1wibazm1xju43k" }, { "id": "ot-aos-1", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "acts-of-service", "motivation" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Per the lesson, genuine Acts of Service must be motivated by which of the following?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Voluntary goodwill" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Guilt" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Coercion" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Fear of conflict" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Acts of Service must be given freely as an act of will; guilt, coercion, and fear are explicitly named as the motivations that poison the emotional atmosphere.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "rbz9m2wk6uw6" }, { "id": "ot-aos-2", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "acts-of-service", "motivation" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which of these is NOT one of the destructive motivations the lesson warns against in acts of service?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Altruistic desire" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Guilt" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Coercion" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Bitter, simmering resentment" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Guilt, coercion, and resentment are named as destructive motivators; altruistic desire to bless the partner is the genuine, healthy motivation the lesson calls for instead.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1w52a58gy0378" }, { "id": "ot-aos-3", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "acts-of-service", "attitude" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "A spouse washes the dishes while sighing and complaining the whole time. What does this communicate, per the lesson?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Resentment" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Anticipatory devotion" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Cheerful willingness" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Genuine humility" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson states that performing a service while grumbling communicates resentment rather than authentic love, regardless of the task getting done.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "10eyh3h6o97pv" }, { "id": "ot-aos-4", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "acts-of-service", "planning" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What does 'cognitive planning' in Acts of Service mean, per the lesson?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Finding the most helpful task" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Tracking favors owed" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Waiting to be asked first" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Following gender-role habits" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Cognitive planning means identifying which specific task would most relieve a partner's burden, not scorekeeping, passive waiting, or defaulting to old role habits.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "199c0hwwthrcg" }, { "id": "ot-aos-5", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "acts-of-service", "micro-service" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "A husband makes his wife's lunch every morning without being asked. Which lesson concept best describes this?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "A domestic micro-service" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A transactional bargain" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A diagnostic complaint" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A gender-role blueprint" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Small, routine acts like packing a lunch are domestic micro-services that consistently drip emotional fuel into a partner's love tank.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "s8phwa1xwnezy" }, { "id": "ot-bnd-1", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "gender-roles", "stereotypes" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "The lesson says people enter marriage with subconscious domestic ___ inherited from their parents' patterns." }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Blueprints" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Rituals" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Traditions" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Habits" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson specifically names these inherited, often-unconscious patterns 'blueprints' β€” mental templates for domestic roles absorbed from one's parents.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "38gbck1ncngzs" }, { "id": "ot-bnd-2", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "gender-roles", "boundaries" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "A husband raised believing diaper-changing is 'women's work' decides to change diapers anyway. What does this demonstrate?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Well-being over outdated pride" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A lopsided transactional bargain" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Toxic relational debt" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A diagnostic complaint" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Crossing traditional domestic boundaries shows a spouse's well-being matters more than outdated pride, unlike bargaining, incurring relational debt, or airing a chore complaint.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "13bin7gilxek8" }, { "id": "ot-bnd-3", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "boundaries", "guilt" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which of the following is NOT a healthy way to secure help from a partner, according to the lesson?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Emotional guilt-tripping" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Direct honest requests" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Voluntary willing service" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Cheerful cooperation" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Guilt-tripping to extract service creates toxic relational debt and resentment; honest requests and willing cooperation build genuine connection instead.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "20kvnobg1cpq" }, { "id": "ot-bnd-4", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "boundaries", "dignity" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What courageous declaration does the lesson describe as key to preserving healthy boundaries?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "I love you too much to allow contempt" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "I will do anything you ask, always" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Whatever makes you happy, I'm fine" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "I owe you for every favor you do" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "This declaration protects both partners' dignity by drawing a boundary against contempt while still affirming love, unlike blanket compliance or scorekeeping.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "a9xer712fsc7v" }, { "id": "ot-bnd-5", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "boundaries", "doormat" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "A wife taught 'a good wife never says no' forces herself to comply with every demand, even disrespectful ones. What is she missing?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Healthy protective boundaries" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Anticipatory care" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Routine domestic micro-services" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Cognitive planning" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Without healthy boundaries, well-meaning service can slide into doormat exploitation; the lesson stresses that boundaries preserve dignity even in a service-oriented love language.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "vpvkdklpasf2" }, { "id": "ot-touch-neuro-1", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "physical-touch", "harlow", "neurobiology" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Whose primate studies proved that infant monkeys prioritized soft tactile comfort over food?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. Harry Harlow" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. RenΓ© Spitz" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. John Bowlby" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Dr. Gary Chapman" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Harlow's surrogate mother experiments showed infant monkeys clung to soft cloth surrogates over wire ones that fed them, proving touch is a core survival need.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "i71xns1ns1704" }, { "id": "ot-touch-neuro-2", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "physical-touch", "spitz", "attachment" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which outcome did Dr. RenΓ© Spitz NOT document in touch-deprived institutionalized infants?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Increased aggressive behavior" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Severe emotional wasting" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Physical developmental decline" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Hospitalism" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Spitz documented emotional and physical wasting (hospitalism) from touch deprivation; the guide never attributes increased aggression to his findings.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "hlo5o19a98ga" }, { "id": "ot-touch-neuro-3", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "physical-touch", "oxytocin", "neurobiology" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Gentle, affectionate touch triggers release of which hormone, lowering cortisol and blood pressure?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Oxytocin" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Dopamine" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Serotonin" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Adrenaline" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Touch releases oxytocin, the 'bonding hormone,' which reduces cortisol, lowers blood pressure, and deepens trust.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "tcpz5a1j1gclc" }, { "id": "ot-touch-neuro-4", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "physical-touch", "sexual-desire" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which basic urge do people often confuse with the Physical Touch love language?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Sexual desire" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Hunger" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Sleep" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Thirst for water" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The guide notes people often confuse sexual desire with the emotional need for everyday non-sexual affection that defines the Physical Touch language.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1j5h2nfivkkgl" }, { "id": "ot-touch-neuro-5", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "physical-touch", "c-tactile-afferents", "neurobiology" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What are C-tactile afferents in human skin specifically tuned to detect?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Slow, gentle stroking" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Sharp, sudden pain signals" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Rapid vibration and pressure" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Extreme temperature changes" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "C-tactile afferents are neural fibers evolved to detect and reward slow, tender stroking that signals bonding.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1mjtg6cv3dy6a" }, { "id": "ot-touch-dialect-1", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "physical-touch", "implicit-touch", "dialects" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which best describes 'implicit touch' in the Physical Touch love language?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Brief, spontaneous everyday touches" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Extended, dedicated intimacy like massage" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Public displays of affection only" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Touch reserved for special occasions" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Implicit touch is the background current of brief daily contact, distinct from explicit touch like massages or intimacy.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "l67joea2ikru" }, { "id": "ot-touch-dialect-2", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "physical-touch", "boundaries", "trust" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What happens, per the guide, when touch becomes demanding or entitled rather than freely given?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "It destroys trust and becomes coercive" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "It strengthens intimacy over time" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "It has no measurable effect on trust" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "It fully satisfies the partner's need" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Demanding or entitled touch transforms love into coercive violation, destroying trust rather than building it.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1pz5dqn1aqt841" }, { "id": "ot-touch-dialect-3", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "physical-touch", "crisis", "grief" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "The lesson describes physical touch as functioning as what for partners facing crisis or tragedy?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "A comfort and safety anchor" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A verbal apology substitute" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A public display of affection" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A distraction from grief" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Touch anchors partners during crisis and grief, offering visceral comfort that words alone cannot provide.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "144rqb96s8fjt" }, { "id": "ot-touch-dialect-4", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "physical-touch", "communication", "dialects" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What kind of communication does the guide say is required to learn a partner's touch preferences?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Vulnerable, open communication" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Assertive, one-sided communication" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Formal, scheduled communication" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Silent, non-verbal-only communication" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Discovering which touch soothes versus irritates a partner requires open, vulnerable communication between spouses.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1sbrjubeys27h" }, { "id": "ot-touch-dialect-5", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "physical-touch", "aging", "commitment" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Mature covenant love provides physical comfort through old age and what other season of life?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Frailty" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Illness" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Disability" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Youth" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The guide says mature love honors a partner's body through every season, including frailty and old age.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1q40i64x423na" }, { "id": "ot-discovery-first-question", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "discovery", "diagnostic-questions" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What does the first diagnostic discovery question ask about a partner?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "What hurts you most when neglected" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "What you request most often" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "How you express love naturally" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "What your friends say about you" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The first question is the Negative Mirror of Complaints: what hurts you most deeply is the opposite of your primary love language.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "b4z92v1ijsplj" }, { "id": "ot-discovery-three-questions-not", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "discovery", "diagnostic-questions" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Which is NOT one of the three diagnostic discovery questions for finding a primary love language?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "What your spouse's parents preferred" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "What hurts you most when neglected" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "What you've most often requested from your spouse" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "How you naturally express love to others" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The three questions cover what hurts most, what you've most requested, and how you naturally express love, not your spouse's parents' preferences.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "4eyeyiu3ayfo" }, { "id": "ot-discovery-bilingual", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "discovery", "bilingual" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "A person nourished equally by two love languages, like Quality Time and Physical Touch, is described as what?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Bilingual" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Multilingual" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Ambidextrous" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Cross-wired" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson calls someone with two equally strong primary love languages 'bilingual.'", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "13uxdbdqqefdj" }, { "id": "ot-tankcheck-scale", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "tank-check" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "In the Tank Check routine, spouses ask: 'On a scale of 0 to ___, how full is your love tank tonight?' What is the top number?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "10" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "5" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "20" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "7" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The Tank Check uses a 0-to-10 scale for rating how full the love tank feels.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1d2thc71phd7kd" }, { "id": "ot-tankcheck-followup", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "tank-check" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What is the goal of the essential Tank Check follow-up question?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Find what raises the tank to a 10" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Assign blame for a low score" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Rehash the day's mistakes" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Debate the future of the marriage" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The follow-up question turns a rating into a concrete, tailored action by asking what would help fill the tank to a 10 β€” not blame or rehashing problems.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "jcuscq12waoem" }, { "id": "ot-unlovely-protocol", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "unlovely-protocol" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "What does the 'Loving the Unlovely' protocol call for a spouse to do?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Unilaterally speak their love language" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Unilaterally schedule more date nights together" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Unilaterally apologize for past mistakes first" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Unilaterally propose a trial separation" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "'Loving the Unlovely' is an intentional protocol of unilaterally speaking a hostile spouse's primary love language, not generic gestures like date nights, apology, or separation, to resurrect the marriage.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "bzwbtc1b6wm5o" }, { "id": "ot-unlovely-case-study", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "unlovely-protocol", "case-study" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "In the Ann and Glenn case study, what restored their marriage?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Ann's six-month unilateral effort in Glenn's love languages" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Glenn's own effort to learn Ann's love languages" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A counselor assigning both of them new love languages" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A mutual, immediate switch to each other's love languages" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Ann initiated a six-month, one-sided effort to speak Glenn's love languages despite his hostility, which melted his resistance β€” not a mutual switch, an outside assignment, or effort from Glenn himself.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "15ldi8k88x8dk" }, { "id": "ot-reciprocity-crumble", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "unlovely-protocol" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "In the Ann and Glenn case, Chapman hypothesized that when a hostile spouse's emotional needs are consistently met, their defensive walls tend to do what?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Crumble" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Strengthen" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Multiply" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Freeze" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Chapman's hypothesis β€” which he explicitly said he could not guarantee β€” was that consistently meeting a partner's emotional needs makes their defensive walls likely to crumble.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "pn7q5c7obpei" }, { "id": "ot-teen-rebellion-root", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "parenting" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "According to the lesson, severe teenage rebellion and hostility is almost always rooted in what?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "An empty love tank craving validation" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A mismatched love language between parent and teen" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "An unresolved secondary dialect conflict" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A temporary life-stage shift in priorities" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "The lesson traces severe teen rebellion to an empty love tank craving validation, not a language mismatch, a secondary-dialect conflict, or a life-stage shift.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1ix7ppj1ceyz35" }, { "id": "ot-generational-heritage-term", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "parenting" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "In Chapman's view, what becomes of a child whose love tank is kept full?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "They grow up emotionally healthy and secure" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "They learn to speak all five languages equally" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "They stop needing their parents' affection" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "They never test limits during adolescence" } ], "correctIndex": 0, "explanation": "Chapman applies the love tank to children: kept full in the child's own primary language, it lets them grow up emotionally healthy. A full tank does not end a child's need for affection or adolescent limit-testing, and each child still has one primary language.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "15s5p2c18kzpnu" }, { "id": "ot-cov-obj-ll-02-1", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "love-languages", "infatuation", "covenant-love" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "According to Dr. Chapman, what quality describes the 'in-love' experience, unlike covenant love?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "A conscious act of the will" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "An instinctual, involuntary high" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A learned relational skill" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "A deliberate daily discipline" } ], "correctIndex": 1, "explanation": "Chapman describes the 'in-love' experience as an instinctual, involuntary emotional high, in contrast to covenant love, which is a deliberate choice.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1xxeym7uw5ezj" }, { "id": "ot-cov-obj-ll-02-2", "shape": "mcq", "tags": [ "love-languages", "infatuation", "covenant-love" ], "prompt": { "modality": "text", "value": "Compared to mature covenant love, what does the initial 'falling in love' experience require, per Chapman?" }, "options": [ { "modality": "text", "value": "Intentional self-sacrifice" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Active relational learning" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Zero conscious effort" }, { "modality": "text", "value": "Daily disciplined choice" } ], "correctIndex": 2, "explanation": "Chapman contrasts effortless, instinctual infatuation with covenant love, which demands discipline, choice, and active learning.", "source": { "label": "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts β€” Objective Test" }, "uid": "1kk8cnhlclcin" } ] }